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W.H.Y. FROM WHY TO HOW

人想要用运智慧答复“我为何存在于这个世界”的问题是,一定会感到眩晕。我们的智慧只能答复“我们该如何生活”这样的问题,而答案非常简单:“我们应该为带给世人美好的事务而活。”
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November 16

ARE U BORED WITH ...

 
 
      

     “Bored? Housework is boring. But you were never boring.”

 

             I didn’t believe her, so I pressed. “Surely children are not as stimulating as a career”

 

     “A career is stimulating,” she said. “I’m glad I had one. But a career is like an open balloon. It remains inflated only as long as you keep pumping.

A child is a seed. You water it. You care for it the best you can. And then it grows all by itself into a beautiful flower”.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

October 21

No. 1 UrgentThingInTheFall

 
    发展体育运动,增强人民体质!!                       
 
 
    Promote sports activities , Build up the people's physique
 
 
 
 
October 19

放弃虚幻的理想后的秋天心境

 
   
  

Let me enjoy the earth no less

Because the all-enacting Might

That fashioned forth its loveliness

Had other aims than my delight.

 

About my path there flits a Fair,

Who throws me not a word or sign;

I’ll charm me with her ignoring air,

And laud the lips not meant for mine.

 

From manuscripts of moving song

Inspired by scenes and dreams unknown,

I’ll pour out raptures that belong

To others, as they were my own.

 

And some day hence, towards paradise

And all its best--- if such should be---

I’ll lift glad, afar—off eyes,

Though it contains no place for me.                  Thomas Hardy

 

 

 

 

October 11

ForTheMostHealthyLife

 
           经过上月行动指针的调整, 本月虽然难免有些疲惫,可是心灵的色彩真的开始更加明亮了。
 
   眼下继续追求的美好理想是——— 对自己对一切事物人物的交流时,既不吝啬该说的一切有利的话语,也要很吝啬去说一丁点儿消极的话儿。
        
 呵,尽管不大容易,我要心意坚定的这样去做。。做。。。。JUST DO IT。。。。。。。。
September 30

精,气,神 = 随心所欲不逾矩 MyHolidayIsEvery day

 
在武夷山时并没有去参观朱熹的旧居,还是对的.
 
 
 

  如心存斗志,也会激起对方的斗志;如大发脾气,对方也不会冷静,所以必须向对手示好。


   
一旦坦诚相待,对方就不会存有戒心,就能听你说话。


   
这是我花了15年才悟出的道理,以后无论我如何多嘴,也不会激起人的反感了。


                          ——摘自日本小说家山冈庄八的著作《德川家康》

 

 

 

 
September 18

WORK HARD,PLAY HARD

 
    亲爱的小朋友 入小学半个月来,身心均适应良好,入学前的知识水平经测量也在班级居前。这些和我预想的“不要第一,只要出色”的观点保持了一致。
 
我平生上学好象只有一次英语竞赛拿过第一,其他考试种种均平淡无奇,甚至有不堪的成绩。奇怪的是,我对前几名的人们有点羡慕之外,并未有过要
达到第几的目标,在学校只是随心的过着,偶尔惆怅。
 
现在女儿也都上学了,虽然心里还隐隐觉得“第一”有什么不好似的,但是又感到在集体中很荣耀的样子我未曾得过,她应该品尝下这滋味吧。
这样想时,难免心急火燎,大动干戈;就象昨天弄的她泪水涟涟,似乎学了不少东西。可是,大家心理都不快,破坏了生活的平衡的美感。
 
今天的社会已经进步了,部分人们已经发现和别人比较是次要的,和自己比才最重要。这样的话,生活的幸福指数才可能很高。
就象如今经济学上讲的各个国家的幸福指数(Happiness Index)的排名居前的并不一定是经济最发达的,有些国家还谈不上发达。
因此,每个人的生活的目标还是要落在更自然的精神追求上,就从:“以爱大自然的情怀来爱自己,爱身边的人与事”开始一点一滴的做起。
 
      为此,目前两年家里的总体行动指针眨眼 调整为:双倍的努力学习+双倍的享受生活微笑:)大笑
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
September 09

teacher's day is my labor day

 
  I am happy that my long-holiday will end tomorrow.
 
  I HAVE a lot of thinking, while i keep it now.